
The Dichotomy of Public and Private Behaviour: Why We Act Differently at Home and Outside It’s often said that we save our best selves for the outside world, but why do so many of us exhibit a disparity in behaviour between our social circles and the confines of our homes? A person who appears polite, kind, and well-mannered among friends or colleagues may sometimes be impatient, irritable, or even dismissive with their spouse, parents, or children. This discrepancy is a curious and complex phenomenon rooted in psychology, societal expectations, and the dynamics of intimate relationships. Understanding this duality is key to fostering healthier connections both inside and outside the home. The Mask of Public Behaviour When we interact with the outside world, whether in professional settings or social gatherings, we consciously or subconsciously put on a mask—a socially acceptable version of ourselves. This behaviour stems from: 1. Societal Expectations : Society places high value on po...