The Unseen Value of a Wife: Why Marriage Still Matters


Marriage is often portrayed with a mix of expectations, promises, and responsibilities. Yet, there is a common notion among some married people that being married, especially to a wife, is burdensome. They express frustrations about the relationship, often generalizing that wives are "bad" or "problematic." The question arises: if wives are really so troublesome, why do people still choose to get married? Let’s explore this paradox and the deeper, often overlooked value of having a wife.

The Misconception of the 'Bad Wife'

Many married individuals complain about their spouses, saying things like, "We are stuck in marriage, don’t get trapped like us", or "Wives are bad, they nag, they doubt us, they don’t let us even talk to neighbors". The complaints often make it seem like wives are a source of trouble. Yet, despite these sentiments, marriage continues to be a common choice for many.

A particularly odd comparison is drawn between wives and sweets like ladoos (Indian sweets). People claim that eating one might lead to regret, and not eating it might also cause regret. This analogy, however, oversimplifies and devalues the importance of the wife. She is neither a sweet to be savored or avoided but an essential partner in life. Understanding what a wife truly represents requires more depth than such shallow comparisons.

The Role and Importance of a Wife

The wife’s role goes far beyond what is often recognized. A wife is not merely a partner but the very foundation of a home. She leaves her own family to join yours, taking on the role of a daughter-in-law, wife, and eventually, a mother. This transition requires immense courage, strength, and adaptability. She is responsible for maintaining the household, managing everything from the smallest details to the larger emotional fabric of the family.

A wife ensures that everything in the house is in order - whether it’s placing things back in their rightful places or taking care of every individual’s needs. She nurtures and supports her family unconditionally. Often, a wife is the one who encourages her partner to steer away from bad habits, preventing them from making mistakes that could hurt them.

When a man’s salary is low, a wife seldom complains. Instead, she provides unwavering support. In times of hardship, she remains a constant source of strength, just like a mother or sister. She offers love and care when her husband falls ill, often taking on the role of caretaker with unparalleled devotion.

The Importance of Respecting Your Wife

It’s easy to misunderstand a wife’s actions, especially when she challenges her husband. However, if the husband is on the wrong path, shouldn’t the wife correct him? Her corrections, though sometimes perceived as nagging, are in fact beneficial. They help him stay grounded, make better decisions, and avoid mistakes. The truth is, her intervention is for the husband’s own good, and there is no shame in seeking her guidance or listening to her concerns.

Yet, despite her efforts, some individuals still make negative remarks about their wives. The question that arises is: if a wife is doing all this, how can she be labeled as “bad” or “problematic”? The truth is, a wife is not a ladoo; she is a priceless gift from God, available only to those fortunate enough to deserve her.

Understanding the Significance of Marriage

If you are married, consider yourself lucky. There is someone who cares for you deeply, supports you, and will stand by your side through thick and thin. After your parents, who else will check on you during difficult times? Without your wife, you may find yourself living alone, dealing with illness or hardship without any support. This reality should make you appreciate the true value of having a life partner who offers love, care, and companionship.

Siblings may leave the nest to start their own families, and a sister will eventually move to her in-laws’ house after marriage. Without a wife, a man can feel lonely and isolated, unable to handle the challenges of life on his own. His emotional and physical well-being may suffer. A wife is, therefore, more than just a partner in marriage; she is a companion who ensures that life remains balanced and complete.

Conclusion: Respect and Appreciate Your Wife

The message is simple - respect your wife, cherish her, and never take her presence for granted. She is not just a partner in marriage, but your closest ally in life. The love, care, and attention she provides are irreplaceable. Remember, without her, your home is not truly a home. A wife is your life’s true companion, sharing both the joys and the sorrows of life.

So, if you are married, consider yourself fortunate. Treat your wife with the respect and love she deserves. The relationship should not be reduced to complaints or grudges but celebrated as a partnership that enriches your life. A wife is not a burden; she is a blessing - a vital part of your world and your journey.

C. P. Kumar
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