The Real Meaning of Marriage: Rethinking Modern Celebrations

 

In today’s world, the grandeur and spectacle of weddings often leave us with mixed feelings. It’s easy to get caught up in the celebrations - hours of festivities, lavish decorations, dazzling lights, and the mesmerizing beats of the band. Destination venues, gourmet food, and extravagant arrangements are just a few of the elements that make modern weddings look like a dream. The price tag for such an event often runs into lakhs, even crores, all spent in a single night. But then what?

The fleeting nature of these celebrations often leads to disappointment. Just a few months - or sometimes even days - after the wedding, the grand union falls apart. The dreams, the promises, the dazzle, all fade away into divorce papers and an empty bank balance.

Rethinking the Spending: What If the Money Was Spent Wisely?

It’s hard to ignore the irony. The same amount of money spent on a single night’s festivities could have been invested in a way that truly secures the future. Imagine if, instead of spending extravagantly on the wedding, an FD (Fixed Deposit) had been made in the daughter’s name. That money could have served as a foundation for her entire life. From funding her education, to providing for her own home, to giving her the financial independence to start a business or face tough times - such an investment would truly make a difference in her future.

Marriage: A Union Built on Trust, Not Splendor

The true essence of marriage isn’t found in the lights or the show. It’s in the bond shared between two people, built on trust and responsibility. A meaningful marriage isn’t marked by grand hotel entries, but by the sincere connection between partners, nurtured by mutual respect and understanding. Marriage is a commitment, and it should be approached with the seriousness it deserves, rather than as an opportunity for lavish displays.

Prioritize the Future Over Show

Rather than splurging on superficial elements, the focus should be on ensuring the daughter’s security. The flashy lights of a wedding might burn out by the end of the night, but the security of a daughter’s future lasts a lifetime. An FD, for example, could provide her with a solid foundation, giving her the support she needs throughout her life - whether for her education, business, or personal challenges.

Simplicity: The True Beauty of Marriage

A simple wedding can be the most beautiful and powerful. It’s not the grandiosity but the sincerity and depth of the relationship that matters. A wedding is not about the display of wealth; it’s about ensuring the security and well-being of your loved ones. The greatest dowry one can give a daughter is the gift of independence, education, and financial stability. This is the most genuine form of blessing, one that lasts forever, unlike the temporary glamour of a lavish wedding.

Conclusion: A Blessing for the Future

Instead of getting caught in the web of extravagant wedding celebrations, consider investing in your daughter’s future. An FD in her name isn’t just money - it’s freedom, strength, and respect. It’s the greatest gift a parent can give, and it’s a true blessing that will continue to support her for the rest of her life. Because the real light that should shine brightest is not the one from the wedding day, but the one that illuminates her future.

C. P. Kumar
Energy Healer & Blogger

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