Social Issues Articles

  In many cultures, art and literature have often focused on women as subjects of poetry and stories, yet men are rarely seen in such a light. Men, throughout history, have been portrayed less as figures of introspection or creativity and more as symbols of power, violence, and stoic responsibility. But why is it that men are so seldom the focus of poetry or art? Why are their stories not given the same platform as women’s? This reflection seeks to explore how society views men, their roles, and the pressures they face, often without being able to express their own stories. Society’s Expectations of Men One of the most prominent issues men face is the weight of societal expectations. From an early age, men are often told they must conform to rigid roles - be strong, be the provider, suppress emotions, and always show resilience. They are expected to work hard, provide for their families, and maintain control over their lives, often without much room for personal expression or relax...

  Extramarital affairs are often cited as a leading cause of the breakdown of families and the rise in criminal activities. The emotional strain and betrayal caused by such relationships can have a significant impact not just on the individuals involved, but also on the broader community. In many cases, the reasons for infidelity are rooted in unmet emotional and physical needs, which, when ignored, lead individuals to seek affection or satisfaction outside their marriage. Unmet Needs in Marital Relationships One of the key factors contributing to extramarital affairs is the lack of attention to the emotional needs of a partner, especially in long-term marriages. In many cases, husbands who require emotional and physical affection in their later years may find themselves neglected by their wives. The reasons for this neglect are varied: some women may cite reasons such as fatigue, a change in mood, age, or the focus on children growing up, leaving their husbands feeling emotionally...

  In today's world, relationships, whether personal or professional, have undergone a significant transformation. The dynamic of mutual support and respect often hinges on one critical factor: utility. As long as one is able to contribute, be it in terms of money, resources, or effort, they are valued and appreciated. However, the moment that value diminishes or disappears, so does the affection and respect that once existed. The Illusion of Unconditional Support In the past, relationships, especially personal ones, were built on deeper emotional connections and mutual understanding. Love, trust, and respect were often unconditional, with people standing by each other through thick and thin. But today, it seems that this sentiment has faded. People tend to show respect and affection as long as they can benefit from the relationship. Once the benefits are no longer apparent, the relationship becomes fragile and easily expendable. This shift can be particularly evident in professiona...

  In recent years, there has been a notable shift in the age at which individuals get married, with many people in their 30s still not finding their life partners. The reasons for this delay are varied, and the evolving expectations around marriage, career, and financial stability play a significant role. The Changing Expectations Around Marriage A common narrative that has emerged around this issue is the growing tendency to place excessive importance on career stability and financial success when considering marriage. One such example can be seen in a story shared by a father about the challenges his daughter faced while trying to find a suitable match. The father was presented with a potential match for his 24-year-old daughter. The boy, aged 25, was well-educated, employed in a city job, had good looks, and came from a wealthy family. Despite these attributes, the father raised concerns about the boy's salary - just ₹30,000 per month. The intermediary tried to assure him that t...

  In life, there are often moments when the lines between genuine affection and transactional relationships become blurred. A reflection on the nature of modern relationships reveals that not all connections are built on love. Some are purely transactional, driven by material benefits. This distinction is particularly important when distinguishing between a partner who loves you for who you are and someone who is with you for what you can offer them financially. The Harsh Reality of Transactional Relationships The following idea may seem harsh to some, but it is grounded in the reality many face: "A kept woman stays with you as long as your pockets are full". This perspective challenges the notion that all relationships, particularly those involving a mistress or a girlfriend, are rooted in love. In these cases, it is not affection or emotional connection that drives the relationship but rather financial security. In the transactional context, the individual often loves not t...

  In today’s world, the grandeur and spectacle of weddings often leave us with mixed feelings. It’s easy to get caught up in the celebrations - hours of festivities, lavish decorations, dazzling lights, and the mesmerizing beats of the band. Destination venues, gourmet food, and extravagant arrangements are just a few of the elements that make modern weddings look like a dream. The price tag for such an event often runs into lakhs, even crores, all spent in a single night. But then what? The fleeting nature of these celebrations often leads to disappointment. Just a few months - or sometimes even days - after the wedding, the grand union falls apart. The dreams, the promises, the dazzle, all fade away into divorce papers and an empty bank balance. Rethinking the Spending: What If the Money Was Spent Wisely? It’s hard to ignore the irony. The same amount of money spent on a single night’s festivities could have been invested in a way that truly secures the future. Imagine if, instea...

  In our society, men are often seen as the primary providers, tasked with the responsibility of ensuring the well-being and stability of their families. They are expected to step out into the world each day to earn a living, all while maintaining a facade of strength and resilience. But behind this outward display of toughness lies a hidden emotional world that many men are reluctant to share. This article explores the complexities of the male experience, particularly in the context of their silent struggles, vulnerabilities, and the emotional challenges they face daily. The Burden of Responsibility The societal expectation for men to be the breadwinners is deeply ingrained. Every day, they leave their homes, not just to earn money, but to fulfill the role of the protector and provider. While doing so, they carry an immense burden – the weight of ensuring their families are supported financially, emotionally, and physically. However, in their pursuit of this goal, men often suppre...